July 10, 2017
Here is your motivational message/winning thinking trigger for the day:
You Shouldn’t Wish For The Return Of Your Ex
I came across an article on the internet last week titled: HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK. …How I wished you were here to see my reaction. I was literally rolling on the floor, laughing uncontrollably.
I know it sounds weird but I just couldn’t see why someone will want to get an ex back – especially if he or she doesn’t want you back
If he/she broke up with you then he/she is the one losing, right? And if you broke up with him/her then why want him or her back if your reason were legitimate?
But thinking through it beyond relationships, I realized that most of us are stuck in life because we can’t let go of past mistakes and hurts. To me, holding onto a past mistake or hurt is like wanting an ex back.
My dear, life is lived forward and everything that happened to you has a positive take way. The greatest harm you do to yourself is trying to hold onto something that has long served its purpose.
Even successes. For example, the fact that you did well in high school does not automatically mean you will do well in college, so you need let that be and up your game.
My dear, let go of all emotional attachments to past events and experiences and focus on tomorrow. Tomorrow is what you can control and that is what you should control.
There are things I should have accomplished by this time of the year, and I still can’t believe I have not done them. But I will not allow the fact that the benefits of those things are never going to be part of my life to hold me back from focusing on finishing the year stronger.
To me, you shouldn’t wish for an old mistake or hurt to get corrected if that will not change anything in the present or the future. It already happened. Renew your mind and focus on becoming a better you for a better tomorrow.
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My dear, there’s no need to keep yourself stuck because of something that has served its purpose already in your life.
Keep the lion within you roaring all through the year. This is your year, this is your season, you are sure to smile again.You are bound for the top. I love you! I believe in you! I believe in your dreams.
You are chosen for greatness! YOU’RE TRULY BORN TO WIN! Stay motivated! Stay Blessed! Please share this message to help others. Thanks, and God bless you.
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